Social Information Processing Theory

Continuing through the Information Age, the internet is becoming more dependable, even when finding relationships. Although the relationship can work, the time it takes from the relationship to develop is said to be four times longer than if the relationship was in person. The relationship also lacks nonverbal cues, with emoticons being one of the few exceptions. Walther also states that relationships online are even more intimate. Self-fulfilling prophecy (if you expect someone to act or respond a certain way) may also come into play during online relationships.

I have had an online relationship. It was really hard to have conversations on AOL instant messenger without him knowing my personality with my sarcasm and teasing. I was also able to disclose more information than I would in person to a complete stranger, probably because I did not believe anything would happen. He would say very nice things and make me smile, without ever knowing, and so I expected him to be a gentleman. When I finally met him, that's how I expected him to be, a gentleman, and he was.

I agree with this theory. I also think meeting people online is a little scary, but it can also be a great feeling.

References:
Griffin, E. (2006). A first look at communication theory (6th ed.). Boston: McGraw Hill.